How to avoid boredom in the bedroom and be the greatest lover she ever had!

I started my sexual education at age 19.

Not with a lover but with a book!

I read the UK's most notorious sex guide at that time.

I was terrified of losing my virginity and coming across as an 'amateur'.

So I bought myself the best lovers guide available complete with hand drawn pictures and so began my sexual education.


I told my boyfriend 'after' and not before, that I had been a virgin. He didn't believe me. I was too good.

In that respect I was disappointed, being great at sex is one thing, losing your viginity and not having the moment fully recognised is something else. He never did believe me either as we carried on having great sex.

Sexual liberation comes from throwing off the 'sex is bad, sex is dirty' shackles and embracing it as a natural, healthy and rewarding past time for two mutually consenting adults to enjoy.

Throughout this blog and via various resources, I aim to help you and your partner experience a more rewarding sexual relationship than you ever dreamed possible.

Who doesn't want better sex?

Even if our sex lives are already great, the most experienced lovers with the least inhibitions can fall foul of routine, become complacent or worse, get bored!

Boredom in the bedroom is all too common.

Couples around the world are having sex in a routine almost clinical fashion whereby not only can each change of position be anticipated but the time and date for sex to take place has been 'booked' in advance.

Where is the thrill, the excitement, the instant erection when your lover undresses?

Women are not like men when it comes to sex.

We need our minds as well as our bodies stimulated.

'A fumble in the jungle' won't cut it on it's own!

Why do you think most women close their eyes during sex?

Are we close to orgasm and soaking up the moment, or are we visualising sex with someone else, somewhere else?

The answer to this can be both.

You guys think you have the monopoly on fantasy but women have this market well and truely cornered.

Which is why you need to learn how to help your partner relax so she reveals her deepest, dirtiest, most erotic sexual fantasies to you and not her imaginary lover.

She does have them...every sexual woman does.

You want to please her as well as have her perform like a porn star.

To do this you need to loosen up a bit too. Prudish men are no more appealing to women than are prudish women to men.

I'm not suggesting you join a swinging club and 'loosen up' by having sex with lots of other couples but find out what she wants from you, why she wants it and how she wants it.

You may be surprised by how kinky some of her requests are. Your normally quiet, mumsy lover might shock you with a very dirty secret.

Most women I know have them, but they are too afraid to share them with their partners. So they indulge their fantasy's on their own, while you are out walking the dog!

You are both missing out as together with greater communication, respect and understanding you can have the best sex either of you ever had.

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How to get a woman to squirt by stimulating her G spot.

Is squirting a myth or magic?

It has to be one or the other as the process by which women appear to 'ejaculate' fluid from their vaginas during sex is completely unknown to biologists.

So women squirting (ejaculating) is either a myth or it's magic, which is it?

I've researched this topic already and many women insist they squirt fluid from inside their vaginas and not via their pee hole. So it's not a myth, but I'm not entirely convinced it's magic either.

What does female 'cum' look like?

When a woman squirts, the fluid is milky white and can shoot out. The area around you both will be very wet. The fluid doesn't smell or look like urine. But that doesn't mean it doesn't come from the same place! Where it comes from remains a mystery.

Biology aside, If you want to make your girlfriend or wife squirt, this is the way to do it.

Warm her up with some clit foreplay.

Massage her vagina with your fingers, tongue or a vibrator, gliding the tools of choice around her clit and inside. You need to do this to encourage the ejaculation fluid to fill up inside her G spot wall. You can feel the G spot area getting harder and thicker as the fluid builds up. See below for details of how to find her G spot!


How to find her 'G' spot

Inside the woman's vagina on the wall where her belly button is about 2 inches up is a soft spongy area.

If you insert your fingers (two is good) and curl them up so your hand makes a type of 'cup' shape you can find the 'G' spot. It's easier to find if you press against her vaginal wall from the opening upwards in stages. use firm pressure but not painful. Use a 'come hither' type of hand movement. Ie When you call someone with your hand you you pull your fingers towards you, release and then repeat several times.

I will post a video of this later to show the exact hand movement required.

When you reach the 'G' spot you feel a difference in her fleshy vagina and if you're pressure is firm and fast, you should get a very pleasurable response when you reach it!

If you identify the area you think the G spot is. Press on it firmly (not painfully) and see if your partner reports a sensation of wanting to 'pee'. Better still ask her how it feels.

If she feels like she wants to pee, she might become tense and tighten up so reassure her that this is a normal sensation. It may be better to discuss squirting with her at some point before hand so she knows that if and when she does squirt, it's not something to be worried about.

Don't discuss this right before sex though as anticipation spoils these things as you can over think sex if you're not careful.

If your partner has already emptied her bladder, she won't wet herself in the conventional sense but she may wet herself in the 'squirting sense'.

When you have the G spot located, stimulate it with the 'come hither' movement.

If you are bold enough to have had a conversation about squirting with your lover beforehand, let her know that when you try this that at the moment she feels she can't hold on any longer, as the fluid has built up so much, to just let go and 'push' the fluid out.

Just watch those ejaculation fluids fly!

You may want to prepare for some mess with towels on the bed before hand.

If your girlfriend is shy she may want to try stimulating herself through masturbation so she can squirt on her own before she tries it with you, so she knows what to expect and how to relax and let go when the moment comes.


Good luck!

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